Speaking

Speaking with Honesty, Depth and Purpose

Whether it’s a leadership conference, an away day or a staff inclusion event, I bring lived experience, deep reflection and a grounded presence to every room I speak in. My talks aren’t polished TED-style performances – they’re real, honest and rooted in what it actually means to lead, live and keep going when things get hard.

What I speak about

I speak on themes that sit at the intersection of leadership, identity, wellbeing and inclusion. I don’t offer glossy keynotes – I offer thoughtful talks that invite reflection, connection and change. Topics include:

  • Leadership and authenticity – leading without losing yourself

  • Burnout and balance – what I learned the hard way

  • Values-led leadership – making decisions when the stakes are high

  • LGBTQ+ inclusion and allyship – beyond the basics

  • Lived experience and vulnerability – what happens when we tell the truth

  • Creating space for others – psychological safety, listening and holding complexity

Each talk is tailored to the audience – whether that’s senior leaders, healthcare professionals, students, or a multi-sector team. I speak with warmth, depth and clarity, always aiming to leave people feeling moved, grounded and inspired to think differently.

My Approach

My talks are always rooted in honesty. I draw from personal experience – including leadership burnout, my journey as a gay man in senior roles, and building two charities from the ground up – and weave that with insight from coaching, systems thinking and organisational change.

I speak calmly, with depth and focus, and I’m not afraid to talk about things that are often left unsaid – from identity and exclusion to failure and self-doubt. What matters to me is creating a space where people feel something real – and leave with something lasting.

How It Works?

Get in touch

Drop me a line with the basics – the date, format, audience and theme you have in mind. If you’re not sure exactly what you want, that’s fine too – we can shape it together.

Tailor the session

We’ll have a conversation about tone, content and purpose. Whether you’re looking for a 20-minute keynote, a longer fireside conversation, a panel contribution, or something more interactive, I’ll make sure the session speaks to your audience and feels aligned with the space you’re creating.

Deliver and reflect

On the day, I’ll bring presence, calm and clarity. Afterwards, I’m always happy to stay for questions, informal conversations or a follow-up session – whatever feels right for the space you’re creating.

Success Stories

"Alex’s honesty brought something rare to the room. Sharing personal experiences with such clarity and care created a space that felt deeply human. It sparked reflection, connection, and the kind of conversations we don’t often make time for."

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